Adult Friend Finder

Adult Friend Finder is the largest, most successful community of adults looking for any variety of sexual encounters. If used correctly, as I will show you here, Adult Friend finder will give you unlimited abilities in meeting the opposite sex. Meeting people online is amazing because you have the convenience of reaching out to so many people at once but in a slowed down time format so that you can be creative and fun but at your own strategic pace. Never before have we been able to get online and meet someone for sex or even other encounters such as threesome, sexy chat, webcam, and more at any time!

 

What are you looking for on Adult Friend Finder?

This is a critical question to ask yourself before you begin, yet so many look past this before getting started. People on Adult Friend Finder are there each for a specific purpose. Their purpose could be to just chat and tease themselves, they could be looking to hook up and have sex with a stranger, they could be looking for someone to join a group for a threesome, or they could be looking for an exclusive fuck buddy outside of their relationship. Obviously there are many reasons to be on Adult Friend Finder, that is why it is so important that you are clear with what outcome you are looking for with joining the community. Let's say you approach a woman for sex and you haven't quite made that intention of outcome clear to yourself you will not be congruent in communicating this to the women you approach.

Do this right now: Write down or make a clear mental note of exactly what you want from Adult Friend Finder. This might sound stupid, but having a clear outcome in anything you do assures that you will successfully achieve that goal!

 

Won't everyone be using these strategies on Adult Friend Finder?

I am sharing with you things that work for me on Adult Friend Finder to get me laid with all types of amazing women. While these things will work for you, I encourage you not to take it as a literal guide, but more as learning from my experience so that you can get a great start and develop your own methods from what you learn.

For anyone still worried, keep in mind how many people read great information that will help them achieve their goal, but how few of them actually implement it in real life. I don't think we have to worry about this stuff getting out and taking away your unfair advantage ;)

 

How should I use your Adult Friend Finder tips for success guide?

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Standing out is important for success with Adult Friend Finder

In the real world women like men who stand out from the crowd. This is no different in the online world, perhaps even more important here since she is probably getting tons of responses daily to her ad. Knowing how to stand out correctly will put you ahead of all the losers who she's used to getting messages from.

How do you stand out from the crowd?

I'll give you some examples in a second, but first I want to point out that since each of us are different unique individuals, we should each find a way to stand out that works for who we are. Go out and read a couple dozen guy profiles right now and note the similarities they have. How can you stand out from these profiles that will also represent who you are?

If you really want to see how generic and boring the responses are that a woman typically gets, set up a female profile and read the responses it gets. You can use a free account, or another free service just for your experimenting. I guarantee you will see that most guys give the same lame ass boring responses, and if you note the similarities and avoid them at all cost, you will get a ton of responses to your messages!

 

Getting to the top of Adult Friend Finder search results

Women are constantly doing searches for a man, if you can get your profile towards the top of the list you will benefit from all the women seeing your profile and actually pursuing YOU! This can be done by understanding how the search software decides which profiles come up and in what order. Obviously there are different types of memberships and you will benefit from having a Gold account but I'm talking about coming up in the top search results for whatever account type you have. (Note: Don't get a highlighted account, it screams that you are desperate)

The search software operates on a "newer is better" type of thinking. The idea is to update your profile often (at least once daily) so that the system notices and puts you towards the top of the list. Logging out and logging back in several times per day can also increase your rank in the search results. Updating several times a day should move you up and get you extra interest from the ladies!

 

Writing your Adult Friend Finder Profile

You want to be very descriptive when writing your Adult Friend Finder profile.  One of the most important things when writing your profile is to Avoid describing yourself as a cliche.  Some examples would be saying that you like long walks on the beach or a perfect night for you is dinner by a roaring fireplace.  While you may really like these things, so does everyone else and your profile will blend in and we all know we want to stand out.

When you're describing the things you like to do be very specific and describe them as an action.  For example don't just say you enjoy basketball.  Instead say how every Wednesday you and a bunch of friends get together for a friendly game of basketball and sometimes turns into a crazy night out depending on whether you decide to go have drinks afterwards.  Women love to have a good time so whatever it is your trying to describe make it sound as exciting as possible.

 

Choosing Pictures for your Adult Friend Finder profile

The pictures you choose for your Adult Friend Finder profile will be a big part of your success or failure on adult friend finder. Remember you are trying to stand out from the crowd and pictures can be a very good way of doing this. Also, remember you will be updating your profile often to stay toward the top of the search results so you can try different pictures to see what type of results you get with each.

Don't put pictures of just your dick on your profile. Women are not going to choose to start interacting with you because of your dick. If you do want to show this part of yourself off, do it by showing your entire body, including face, and make it a naked picture not just a naked dick picture. Every chode jack ass on Adult Friend Finder has these pictures and women typically pass right by them!

Be cautious when using pictures with other women in them. You might think since this is a swinger site it might be cool to show pictures of you with other women or worse yet pictures of you fucking other women. While it's true there are a lot of women just looking for hook ups and sex, you don't want yourself to come off like a total playboy slut. Also, when including women in a picture remember the women will be judging you by this to see what type of women you are usually with. She is likely to either be intimidated because the other woman is to hot, or think you are a chump if the woman isn't very hot. So be cautious with including other women in your pictures.

Use pictures that portray you with strong body language, having fun, doing something adventurous, and other pictures that speak about who you are. It builds a fantasy for the woman to see what type of man you are. Pictures with adventure, or fun and laughter will build attraction towards you and get you responses way more than any naked picture will!

 

Contact all of your Adult Friend Finder Cupid Matches

Adult Friend Finder has a very good system in place for finding you people that you may be compatible with.  They are called "cupid matches".  Adult Friend Finder takes what your interests are (according to how you filled out your profile) and goes out and finds people compatible with you.  This is another reason why you want to be very truthful when filling out your profile so your cupid match results are very targeted to what you really like.

Once Adult Friend Finder has found a possible match for you, you'll get a email notification describing a little bit about "your match" and you can decide to send them a message or not.  Personally I highly recommend contacting all of your cupid matches, because I get laid about 75% of the time just from my cupid matches!  Here's another tip the more descriptive your own profile the more information Adult Friend Finder has to go on for your cupid matches thus getting you more possible matches and more targeted matches and a better chance of getting laid!

 

Getting great responses from the new girls on Adult Friend Finder

You will find that you will get way better responses from the women who are new to Adult Friend Finder. Women who are new will be less likely to blow you off and even a little nervous but more open to meeting you.

Do a search daily for women in your area and make a note of who you see regularly and when new profiles start to come to the top these are usually new profiles. Send them all a response right away and you will see great results!

 

Rules for responding to Adult Friend Finder ads

1. Don't be boring or typical. Example of a boring response: "Hi, I like your pics, take a look at mine and tell me if you are interested" This is the typical loser response she is probably getting from tons of guys. Keep an edge on everything you do and make your response fun and unique.

2. Don't be apologetic in the context of your responses. It sounds weird but most men will apologize for something in their response, which dials up the "I am a wuss bag" rather than attraction knob. Example: "I might not be exactly what you are looking for but..." "You probably get all kinds of responses but..." "I don't know if you'll like me but..." and other stupid ass stuff like that. Men have a habit of pointing out the bad things about themselves and drawing attention to it when a woman might not have ever even thought of it.

3. Don't seek her approval. Men typically try to make a woman like them and it rarely ever works. They will brag, talk themselves up, and think they are the coolest thing in the world, meanwhile the woman is losing attraction because she can sense he is a low value guy that is trying way to hard. You need to come from a frame of KNOWING she is going to like you, rather than hoping. This way you can be cocky and funny and dial up attraction. Men who seek approval will usually play it safe, don't be affraid to put anything out there that she might dislike. That behavior can also make you seem like you are seeking her approval.

 

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